How to Give The First Kiss -
and how to kiss for the first time
Are you anticipating for the moment that you taste your first kiss?
Are you worried that you might cause a major turn-off during that
special moment because you simply don’t know what to do?
Well kissing is
a spontaneous act; you don’t actually know when it will happen unless
it’s going to happen. Given this you should always be ready to kiss or
be kissed, especially when it’s your first time to be in such defining
moment. So to help you release your anxieties and prep you up for your
first kiss, then here are a few good tips you can follow:
- Be confident, and pretend you've kissed before! Your partner will never know that you’re a first-time
kisser unless you reveal it. So be calm, and look like you know what
you're doing! She'll never know.
- Choosing the right moment to kiss:
a) The most obvious time to
kiss is at the end of a date when you say goodbye. - But be careful,
because not all people will want to kiss
on the first date! You may have to wait a few dates before this
happens. It depends on their personal preference.
After you say goodbye, and how much you enjoyed yourselves, that's when
you should lean in closer for a kiss. If they are keen, they will
reciprocate, and then you know you can kiss them. If she turns her face
so that her cheek is facing you, then it means you should just give her
a light kiss on her cheek. If she stays front on, and lifts up her face,
it means she wants you to kiss her on her lips.
b) Other moments apart from saying goodbye that could be a good time
to kiss is during a romantic setting - somewhere where you are sitting
close together, and preferably alone! Some scenarios are when you're
both sitting at the beach, in a park etc.
- Remember to have a fresh-smelling breath always, since you do not
know when your first kiss is going to happen. You can chew gum to keep
your mouth fresh, but throw it out discreetly before you kiss.
- Preparing to kiss: Slightly moisten your lips before kissing - you
don't want her to feel dry cracked lips on her lovely supple ones! Just
bring your lips into your mouth and wet lightly with your tongue. DON'T
MAKE IT TOO SLOBBERY! Just slightly moist.
- Preparing to kiss: Tilt your head - because we all have noses
that stick out of our faces! This can sometimes pose a problem when
going in for the kiss. What you and your date need to do is tilt
your head slightly to one side - hopefully they will choose the
opposite side to tilt their head, and you can kiss without your
schnozzes getting in the way!
- When going in for the kiss, very very slightly open your lips so
that there's a tiny gap. Let your lips be relaxed, she wants to kiss
soft lips not hard lips. Don't pucker your lips, puckering kisses are
for pecks on cheeks, not lips on lips.
- Don't rush the kiss! Even if you feel really embarrassed about
it, once you're committed, take a bit of time to enjoy it! Linger
your lips a little on hers. Let both your warm lips share some
warmth!
- Kiss softly. You'll make less mistakes if you kiss softly, and
lightly on each other's lips. Practise kissing on the back of your hand
lightly (in private). Remember soft and slow. If you've got sensitive
lips you'll feel how sensuous this can be. You should kiss so that she
wants more.
- During your first kiss
meanwhile, try to act normal and relaxed; this helps ease the tension
you feel while being kissed back, and you get focus on how to express
your emotions to your partner.
- If you’re really eager for the coming of your first
kiss you could do some research. Carefully observe the kissing
scenes done in romantic movies. This way you have an idea on how to
kiss, even by watching the actors on screen.
- What to do when you bang your head: if in case you accidentally
bang your head with your partner, the best thing to do is just laugh it
off. It normally happens among couples during their first kiss. For
guys, if and when you hit your head on your date’s, then you can kiss
her forehead, or the area where it hurts. That would make her feel extra
special and anticipate for your kiss. Girls on the other hand may blush
when this happens. Just smile and prepare yourself for the lip-lock.
That makes your first kiss perfect.
- One good way to express your affection
to your partner is by giving her a warm embrace while you kiss. This
makes her feel more comfortable kissing you especially when it’s her
first kiss too. Let your date
hug you back as well.
Smile after you've kissed. It may be her first kiss too, and she
wants to know if you liked kissing her. If you're able to talk, you may
want to tell her that she is a good kisser! That way she may be pleased
and want to kiss you again :) |
